Comments on: My Thought Process…. http://sojournersverdad.com/2010/01/08/my-thought-process/ A candid journey of a woman's quest for authenticity... Wed, 25 Apr 2012 14:31:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: SoJo http://sojournersverdad.com/2010/01/08/my-thought-process/#comment-238 SoJo Fri, 08 Jan 2010 20:22:13 +0000 http://sojournersverdad.com/?p=1121#comment-238 <i>People need to do away with all the superficiliaty and just shut up and listen to their spirit.</i> My thoughts exactly. But it seems SO much harder now that we're all educated, professional and sophisticated. That seems so...dare I say...primitive...and you know we got degrees and ish now... Can't trust our instincts and intuition anymore. That wouldn't make any sense! LOL! People need to do away with all the superficiliaty and just shut up and listen to their spirit.

My thoughts exactly. But it seems SO much harder now that we’re all educated, professional and sophisticated. That seems so…dare I say…primitive…and you know we got degrees and ish now… Can’t trust our instincts and intuition anymore. That wouldn’t make any sense! LOL!

]]> By: SoJo http://sojournersverdad.com/2010/01/08/my-thought-process/#comment-237 SoJo Fri, 08 Jan 2010 20:17:47 +0000 http://sojournersverdad.com/?p=1121#comment-237 Don't make me quit you over Mr. Easy Greasy. I can barely stomach the coat of olive oil he slathered across his chest...not I gotta look at he teefus too??? I think that it affects me because it makes me sad to see so many folks buy into the hype. It's similar to that community convo we had the other day. I can control my household in my neighborhood, but if everyone else's houses start to crumble then MY property value is affected And yeah, I've already had people take offense when I tell them, "#iRefuse" when the subject comes up. Don’t make me quit you over Mr. Easy Greasy. I can barely stomach the coat of olive oil he slathered across his chest…not I gotta look at he teefus too???

I think that it affects me because it makes me sad to see so many folks buy into the hype. It’s similar to that community convo we had the other day. I can control my household in my neighborhood, but if everyone else’s houses start to crumble then MY property value is affected

And yeah, I’ve already had people take offense when I tell them, “#iRefuse” when the subject comes up.

]]> By: fornot http://sojournersverdad.com/2010/01/08/my-thought-process/#comment-236 fornot Fri, 08 Jan 2010 15:04:18 +0000 http://sojournersverdad.com/?p=1121#comment-236 I definitely agree that there is way too much thinking involved. Certainly, whomever you decide to spend yor life with should be well-thought out from every angle. But flaws are not disqualifications. Hearing Minnie Riperton singing "Loving You" every time your man/woman walks into the room is not a requirement. And taking advice from people who have never met you on how to love is a recipe for unsatisfaction. People need to do away with all the superficiliaty and just shut up and listen to their spirit. Insetad of surmising that a committment today means missing out tomorrow, we should hold on to that bird in the hand for dear life. I definitely agree that there is way too much thinking involved. Certainly, whomever you decide to spend yor life with should be well-thought out from every angle. But flaws are not disqualifications. Hearing Minnie Riperton singing “Loving You” every time your man/woman walks into the room is not a requirement. And taking advice from people who have never met you on how to love is a recipe for unsatisfaction.

People need to do away with all the superficiliaty and just shut up and listen to their spirit. Insetad of surmising that a committment today means missing out tomorrow, we should hold on to that bird in the hand for dear life.

]]> By: Ms. Smart http://sojournersverdad.com/2010/01/08/my-thought-process/#comment-235 Ms. Smart Fri, 08 Jan 2010 12:37:40 +0000 http://sojournersverdad.com/?p=1121#comment-235 First, I think you meant Teeth Harvey. LOL I guess my experiences are different than yours. What I read or hear on TV doesn't affect my relationships or my outlook because the stuff people are complaining about aren't nec happening to me. As for the advice, I make my statements based on my experiences and observations because ain't NOTHING new under the sun. Lastly, be careful how you talk about the Black family. You might get called names or people will look to be offended but not for what you're actually saying. *Palin wink* First, I think you meant Teeth Harvey. LOL

I guess my experiences are different than yours. What I read or hear on TV doesn’t affect my relationships or my outlook because the stuff people are complaining about aren’t nec happening to me. As for the advice, I make my statements based on my experiences and observations because ain’t NOTHING new under the sun. Lastly, be careful how you talk about the Black family. You might get called names or people will look to be offended but not for what you’re actually saying. *Palin wink*

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